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Relapses - Commit to Quitting |
If you have relapses, you
should consider sticking to your commitment to quit. You should do
an immediate re-start, to get right back on track. You have invested
considerable time and effort in your success thus far. You may not
have finished your plan, but you have made a good start! Don’t give
up now! After all, your time off cigarettes has already cleared much
of the nicotine out of your system. You’ve survived the worst days
of nicotine withdrawal. And you’ve already had some good practice in
coping with smoking triggers and in using creative alternatives to
give your substitutes for cigarettes when you get the urge to light
up.
Fast Way to Re-Quit!
Every
cigarette you don’t smoke, every time you say, “No!” is a small
victory. Every small victory helps you beat your old smoking habit.
Practice makes perfect. If you slipped up, it means you didn’t quite
handle a temptation you faced. It doesn’t mean that you are a
failure or that you are addicted and can’t quit.
So before you go any further, add up your victories:
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On a calendar,
check off the days you went without cigarettes.
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Record the days on
which you smoked one, two, or more cigarettes.
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Give the reason
why you smoked.
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Write down what
steps you could have taken that might have helped you to avoid
smoking in that situation.
The goal is to pinpoint what went wrong each time you slipped and
had a cigarette. Forget guilt and blame. Instead, focus on what
caused the slips and what you will do differently next time. For
example, you may find that your slips occurred only in the evening
when you were home relaxing and watching television. An alternative
can be that you have some substitutes ready while watching
television in the evening, perhaps busy work or some hobby you can
do at the same time, or perhaps some reasonably healthy snacks.
Long-term, successful ex-smokers almost never puff. Virtually all of
them feel that it’s easier to have none, than one.
Mental Preparation.
When you first decided to quit smoking, you began the process of
learning to be a nonsmoker. You thought about the benefits smoking
had offered you (such as stress relief, weight control, social
acceptance). You also became aware of the negatives (the health
risks, the expense, the loss of control over your life). Then you
identified alternative activities you could use to replace smoking
in your life. The next step was to begin practicing those
alternatives.
You’ve had some practice over the past few weeks, but you’re still
learning. This learning stage will continue until you get really
good at nonsmoking. That usually takes at least several weeks, but
often two or three months. So if you’ve stumbled recently, it
doesn’t mean you can’t accomplish your goal. It simply means you
will have to continue in the intensive learning stage for at least
another month or two.
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